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Have you ever thought you have been influenced or influencing other people. The great quality of a leader is influencing people without their knowledge. for example - if your team mate or your manger says they have lot of work but they could not complete it, what will be your answer and this work does not belong to you, if you say you will do it for them then you have been influenced by your team mate or manager. Doesn't mean you should not help others you may help people who really needs your help and some good people will be straight-forward to ask help, only when they need it. You can find influencing people easily since they try to find people to do their jobs. These people never work hard and they call themselves as smart worker. Never get influenced by these kind of people. 

Do you ever thought about being materialistic. Most of us are materialistic. Do you like gifts from others? do you like money? do you like shopping? do you spent most of your earnings in buying stuffs? -answer yourself. If you get yes for all, then you are materialistic. And one more thing do you like people who loves you or people who gifts you find it. Made a small survey, where 90% people around us are materialistic. We are in a materialistic world. I dint blame that we are materialistic we are running behind it. If we do we expect in return, if we get we have to return it in same way we got, that if you get a pencil you would like to return it as pen. We are running behind money and we are not satisfied with what we have. Finally, there are some people who values character than other things but their character are less valued than materialistic ones.  

3f Facts : fight - forget - forgive  f-ight  Learn to fight for everything. Fight doesn't mean involving blood or putting one down and going up, it may be like you are struggling with your past thought, fight to come out of your thoughts get engaged with some other works. It may be like you are struggling with your health, fight against health with your will power, its proven that our health can be improved if we believe we are good. It may be like you are struggling to wake up at morning, fight those five minutes of early waking, your day will be better than any other days. Fight for your self-respect, fight to improve yourself daily, fight to get what you want and fight to be good with all.  f-orget  Learn to forget everything that makes you down. Forget about the people who speaks behind you and never take the words of some who never encourages you. Try to forget your worst past, if you get it again and again in your mind then it leads you to a bad path. To bring the best in you

Lets forget our problems, first make our mind blank and erase everything for few minutes. Take a minute and ask yourself what is happiness. Now close your eyes and imagine that you are happy. What you get a person or thing, it depends on you. Here you believe that you are happy with that person/thing. Lets take it as 'x'. 'x' may be a bike/car/boy/girl/books anything. Lets imagine you got your 'x' and you are happy.  Here comes the next part, will you be happy with 'x'. Everyone says "yes" without a second thought but the real answer is "no". Of-course i agree you will be happy with 'x' for a period of time but not all the way in your life. What i am trying to convey is happiness depends on your inner thoughts. We keep changing our-self periodically and blaming others for our lost happiness. Lets imagine you love a person lets name him/her as 'd' and you say you are happy if 'd' loves you back. Why do you d