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Making a new habit is  easy than you think. Don't expect every attempt ends successfully, sometimes it may take more attempts at single habit installation. Don't try to change your life over night, it takes some time to make a change. If you want to study for two hours a day first start with 30 mins a day. Try to make it consistent it will help you to stick with your habit. There is a study called 21 days of habit installation which end up in installing a new habit, this is what everyone knows. But the real fact is 21 days of habit installation is to be practiced 3 times continuously to make a habit of life. You have to practice continuously for 9 weeks. For waking up daily at 6.00 am i tired a week and ended. After three month in my fifth i tired the same the for next 22 days, and i ended successfully waking up at 6.00 am but 23rd day i got frustrated and made a break for two days, third day i could not wake up early, it went to my old routine habit of waking up at 9.00 am and...

To Develop yourself you have to work a little bit, have to develop a daily routine. Self-practice is the best way to learn. First build an atmosphere where you are going to get inspired everyday, try to wake up before sun and go to bed as early as you could, overcome the fears, start taking notes about yourself it would be helpful to identify where you need to improve, make a challenge to yourself with a goal and deadline example meditating before sleep - 30 days challenge , make a to-do-list this helps to stay focused, try to quit bad habits such as being late! over sleeping! over thinking! nail biting! and more, cultivate a new habit such as exercising! reading books! waking up early!and more, ignore negative people, find positive people, level up your skills every 24 hours,  find lessons in self-mistakes, make a self validation every 30 days. 

Most among us have negative thoughts. Its because of fear of facing things. I cant do it,  I am not worthy, I must be perfect, I must not make a mistake, I not good enough, Nobody loves me, I dint earn much... these are the most of negative thoughts we come across. Once try to  face the problem "I cant do it" as "I can do it", from that moment you will get some new energy to complete it easily. Yes, its funny to hear it but try once you will get some new experience. Negative thoughts stops us from success. Successful people says that they never thought negatively. Coming up with positive thoughts - I can, oh yes, I will, possible, lets try,  will end up in success. Positive thoughts should be on our words from good morning to good night. Try to face every situation as positive as you could. Lets being from here.

Have you ever thought you have been influenced or influencing other people. The great quality of a leader is influencing people without their knowledge. for example - if your team mate or your manger says they have lot of work but they could not complete it, what will be your answer and this work does not belong to you, if you say you will do it for them then you have been influenced by your team mate or manager. Doesn't mean you should not help others you may help people who really needs your help and some good people will be straight-forward to ask help, only when they need it. You can find influencing people easily since they try to find people to do their jobs. These people never work hard and they call themselves as smart worker. Never get influenced by these kind of people. 

Do you ever thought about being materialistic. Most of us are materialistic. Do you like gifts from others? do you like money? do you like shopping? do you spent most of your earnings in buying stuffs? -answer yourself. If you get yes for all, then you are materialistic. And one more thing do you like people who loves you or people who gifts you find it. Made a small survey, where 90% people around us are materialistic. We are in a materialistic world. I dint blame that we are materialistic we are running behind it. If we do we expect in return, if we get we have to return it in same way we got, that if you get a pencil you would like to return it as pen. We are running behind money and we are not satisfied with what we have. Finally, there are some people who values character than other things but their character are less valued than materialistic ones.