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Relationships are unpredictable. To maintain a happy relationship needed a healthier understanding. The happy relationship gets affected mostly as you need your partners to love you the same way you do, without understanding them, the way they love you. Expressing your love requires a keen understanding of what love means to your partner. Let you to feel the same, then she/he will love you the way you love him/her. Here gets a proper understanding and catch up a happy relationship.  Personal Space It doesn't mean that when you in relationship you partner does not need a personal space. Sit and speak with your partner ask her if she/he need any personal space, if so grant them that space don't be dominant.  Never get angry at the same  time.   Try to calm your partner, if she/he is angry with you or something-else. If one among you need to win the fight or argument, to end it, let you be the loser. Don't get sick. Never be too dependent on your partner. If you think always y

Relationships are complicate because we complicate it.  Loving a person is not that difficult as some people says. Here are some reasons how we complicate relationship - not having trust on partner, miscommunication or lack of communication, being defensive, not ready to accept any change, and more. If he/she spoke for 10 mins and could not continue because of their situation but you need to continue it, what will be your reaction here, if you are not ready to accept the situation and not let he/she to go you are complicating the relationship, you may give a reason that this is not first time she/he ask me to accept the situation, i have accepted 'n' number of times and how many times i could bare it. This is simple, you are not ready to accept the reality, you have some expectations which she/he could not make it. These expectation complicates the relationship. Allow yourself to be honest with your relationship and with your partner including sex satisfaction, be expressive, a

  The way your are connected with your loved ones. The best thing about relationship is you can connect with only the source of deep fulfillment, the rest are said to be passing clouds which may even last for years but without that connectivity the relationship does not going to work. People needs relationships to be perfect but what is the need to be perfect in relationship, and the perfection is defined by their needs. the first thing for a good and healthy relationship is to stop expecting to be perfect or easy. Falling in love is a greatest gift, but maintaining that relationship is a nightmare. This is because of expecting a person to be as you need and not willing to be the person needed for other. The word relationship doesn't meant only for your partner it also include your blood relations and whom you like among your circle.

Making a new habit is  easy than you think. Don't expect every attempt ends successfully, sometimes it may take more attempts at single habit installation. Don't try to change your life over night, it takes some time to make a change. If you want to study for two hours a day first start with 30 mins a day. Try to make it consistent it will help you to stick with your habit. There is a study called 21 days of habit installation which end up in installing a new habit, this is what everyone knows. But the real fact is 21 days of habit installation is to be practiced 3 times continuously to make a habit of life. You have to practice continuously for 9 weeks. For waking up daily at 6.00 am i tired a week and ended. After three month in my fifth i tired the same the for next 22 days, and i ended successfully waking up at 6.00 am but 23rd day i got frustrated and made a break for two days, third day i could not wake up early, it went to my old routine habit of waking up at 9.00 am and

To Develop yourself you have to work a little bit, have to develop a daily routine. Self-practice is the best way to learn. First build an atmosphere where you are going to get inspired everyday, try to wake up before sun and go to bed as early as you could, overcome the fears, start taking notes about yourself it would be helpful to identify where you need to improve, make a challenge to yourself with a goal and deadline example meditating before sleep - 30 days challenge , make a to-do-list this helps to stay focused, try to quit bad habits such as being late! over sleeping! over thinking! nail biting! and more, cultivate a new habit such as exercising! reading books! waking up early!and more, ignore negative people, find positive people, level up your skills every 24 hours,  find lessons in self-mistakes, make a self validation every 30 days. 

Most among us have negative thoughts. Its because of fear of facing things. I cant do it,  I am not worthy, I must be perfect, I must not make a mistake, I not good enough, Nobody loves me, I dint earn much... these are the most of negative thoughts we come across. Once try to  face the problem "I cant do it" as "I can do it", from that moment you will get some new energy to complete it easily. Yes, its funny to hear it but try once you will get some new experience. Negative thoughts stops us from success. Successful people says that they never thought negatively. Coming up with positive thoughts - I can, oh yes, I will, possible, lets try,  will end up in success. Positive thoughts should be on our words from good morning to good night. Try to face every situation as positive as you could. Lets being from here.

Have you ever thought you have been influenced or influencing other people. The great quality of a leader is influencing people without their knowledge. for example - if your team mate or your manger says they have lot of work but they could not complete it, what will be your answer and this work does not belong to you, if you say you will do it for them then you have been influenced by your team mate or manager. Doesn't mean you should not help others you may help people who really needs your help and some good people will be straight-forward to ask help, only when they need it. You can find influencing people easily since they try to find people to do their jobs. These people never work hard and they call themselves as smart worker. Never get influenced by these kind of people. 

Do you ever thought about being materialistic. Most of us are materialistic. Do you like gifts from others? do you like money? do you like shopping? do you spent most of your earnings in buying stuffs? -answer yourself. If you get yes for all, then you are materialistic. And one more thing do you like people who loves you or people who gifts you find it. Made a small survey, where 90% people around us are materialistic. We are in a materialistic world. I dint blame that we are materialistic we are running behind it. If we do we expect in return, if we get we have to return it in same way we got, that if you get a pencil you would like to return it as pen. We are running behind money and we are not satisfied with what we have. Finally, there are some people who values character than other things but their character are less valued than materialistic ones.  

3f Facts : fight - forget - forgive  f-ight  Learn to fight for everything. Fight doesn't mean involving blood or putting one down and going up, it may be like you are struggling with your past thought, fight to come out of your thoughts get engaged with some other works. It may be like you are struggling with your health, fight against health with your will power, its proven that our health can be improved if we believe we are good. It may be like you are struggling to wake up at morning, fight those five minutes of early waking, your day will be better than any other days. Fight for your self-respect, fight to improve yourself daily, fight to get what you want and fight to be good with all.  f-orget  Learn to forget everything that makes you down. Forget about the people who speaks behind you and never take the words of some who never encourages you. Try to forget your worst past, if you get it again and again in your mind then it leads you to a bad path. To bring the best in you

Lets forget our problems, first make our mind blank and erase everything for few minutes. Take a minute and ask yourself what is happiness. Now close your eyes and imagine that you are happy. What you get a person or thing, it depends on you. Here you believe that you are happy with that person/thing. Lets take it as 'x'. 'x' may be a bike/car/boy/girl/books anything. Lets imagine you got your 'x' and you are happy.  Here comes the next part, will you be happy with 'x'. Everyone says "yes" without a second thought but the real answer is "no". Of-course i agree you will be happy with 'x' for a period of time but not all the way in your life. What i am trying to convey is happiness depends on your inner thoughts. We keep changing our-self periodically and blaming others for our lost happiness. Lets imagine you love a person lets name him/her as 'd' and you say you are happy if 'd' loves you back. Why do you d